So you think I'm an _______?!?!?

so I'm here today to discuss what i have been called on several different occasions. its what you call a person that you really don't care for, or someone that has recently upset you. the word is "a**hole". now that's get a proper definition of this word from our good friend Webster's dictionary. Webster defines "a**hole" as '1) usually vulgar : anus. 2) usually vulgar : a stupid, incompetent, or detestable person usually vulgar : the worst place —used in phrases like asshole of the world'.
now wen i was first called it i was not happy at all about this. i felt hurt that someone WHO actually knows me would call me this. anyone who knows me personally knows that I'm the nicest, friendliest, selfless person you have ever encountered. so those words coming from ppl that i know kinda touched my sensitive side. BUT... after thinking about it for a while i decided to embrace it. i mean if you call me/ want to to be an "a**hole" ill be one. i have no problem living up to that title. it just means i can give little effort in pleasing others. it means i don't have to be nice to people, don't have to go that extra step to make people happy, and i can focus more on me. since people already expect me to be an "a**hole" i will try my best to be one. lol so the moral of this story is be careful what you wish say , you may just get what you say. lmao! no really theres no moral , its just something i wanted to say.
In closing I just want to leave you with there few words .... I'm not and "a**hole" I'm whatever you want me to be. So if that's want you want or expect outta me, that what you will get. But when its all said and done and you looking back , I will only be me. So take me for who I am or just leave me who I'll be.

~CF~

Why do folks judge so harsh???

I was in the store the other day and i had my young black and educated t-shirt on...well on the front it said "Americas Worst Nightmare"I guess that kinda through the lady off for a minute...who knows. anyways...i proceeded to ask her for some help and she actually seemed scared and kinda turned away from me. then i turned around and showed her what it said on the back and you wont believe what came out of her mouth next...."oh I'm so glad that is what it said, i thought you were one of those thugs or something"...then she proceeded to help me...keep in mind that she was black as well. now i wasn't in there all thugged out with my grill in or wearing a du-rag or even saggin'. i guess the first appearance of the shirt just made her judge me. i was being my usual nice, charming self, and meant no harm....now here is the question, do you think that was wrong of her to judge me off appearance alone, or was it simply the fact that i am a young, black male and i looked intimidating? is it fair to judge others off looks alone period? i just wanted to share a very small chapter in my life with you guys...if u care to comment or write back, holla at me on any occasion...

~Willz