So you think I'm an _______?!?!?

so I'm here today to discuss what i have been called on several different occasions. its what you call a person that you really don't care for, or someone that has recently upset you. the word is "a**hole". now that's get a proper definition of this word from our good friend Webster's dictionary. Webster defines "a**hole" as '1) usually vulgar : anus. 2) usually vulgar : a stupid, incompetent, or detestable person usually vulgar : the worst place —used in phrases like asshole of the world'.
now wen i was first called it i was not happy at all about this. i felt hurt that someone WHO actually knows me would call me this. anyone who knows me personally knows that I'm the nicest, friendliest, selfless person you have ever encountered. so those words coming from ppl that i know kinda touched my sensitive side. BUT... after thinking about it for a while i decided to embrace it. i mean if you call me/ want to to be an "a**hole" ill be one. i have no problem living up to that title. it just means i can give little effort in pleasing others. it means i don't have to be nice to people, don't have to go that extra step to make people happy, and i can focus more on me. since people already expect me to be an "a**hole" i will try my best to be one. lol so the moral of this story is be careful what you wish say , you may just get what you say. lmao! no really theres no moral , its just something i wanted to say.
In closing I just want to leave you with there few words .... I'm not and "a**hole" I'm whatever you want me to be. So if that's want you want or expect outta me, that what you will get. But when its all said and done and you looking back , I will only be me. So take me for who I am or just leave me who I'll be.

~CF~